Time-Out?

Carrie Bradshaw and Mr Big in SATC2 has set a rule for their marriage life, a rule that used to pop up in my mind all the time when I think myself as a married woman. I am a Gemini. Gemini who are easily bored by situations, esp when things get too routine and bored. Me, like Carrie, has always been discussing with Alvin that what we are supposed to do after getting married..setting ourselves with our own rules. We should have a holiday as a couple every year (if we can afford it hahahaha) have our own time, time off with friends...have our own hobbies...and I just realized setting all these rules are actually ways to convince myself that our marriage life is not going to be bored.

Well after watching this movie (LADIES!! it's a must watch movie), I laughed at myself. I think I am thinking too hard, why do I have to bound this marriage to-be life with rules?? At the end of a day (be it a good or bad day) the only thing I want is to be able to sleep and feel blessed each day that I have someone beside me who loves me for whoever I am. This person who has chosen me to be his long-life partner. It should be a privilege journey and experience of having him in my life (hahahhaha i know alvin is going to be very Ge-Er when he reads this).

I don't guarantee we won't have problems in our marriage life ahead, but I am very confident that we will live well and happy for the next 90 years. Unlike Carrie and Mr Big, we don't plan to be "just you and me, the two of us" in our marriage, we plan to have additional members to our small family to make our life more interesting and colorful!