Thursday, April 16

A Woman's strength
















Tadi pagi lagi dengerin radio, ternyata mgg depan hari Ibu Kartini lho....Jaman sekarang, banyak pekerjaan lelaki seperti Pilot, Engineering, Polisi, enterprenuer etc suda pelan2 di lakukan oleh para wanita :) Something for ladies to be proud of, karena jaman suda berubah. Dulu mungkin selalu punya pikiran wanita itu lemah, tidak punya hak untuk bersuara, yang ada cuman menjadi seseorang ibu rumah tangga.

But deep inside my thoughts, I will still prefer to think woman as being a mother and a wife. Iya jaman suda berubah, wanita berkarir tuh biasa but i don't like that idea. Wanita lebih cocok untuk menjadi pendamping suami dan seseorang ibu untuk anak-anak nya.

Dulu waktu jaman SMP, teman2 gua selalu berpikiran gua akan menjadi a good businesswoman or wanita berkarir...hehehehehe I don't know where they got such ideas. Well bukan berarti bokap businessman harus menurun ke anak nya dong....padahal gua paling ngk suka namanya kerja di kantor atau berkompetisi di dunia lelaki. So not me bgt...

Gua masi kecil paling senang nongkron di dapur temanin mbak jum masak, bantu2 prepare ingredient...dan kalo yang lebi lucu lagi...gua dulu senang bgt kalo di suru cuci piring hehehehe kalo uda liburan suka ikutin nyokap and my grandma ke dapur...liatin mereka masak..very enjoyable.

So if I am being asked who is the most perfect "ibu kartini" for me.. it will be my mom :)

A good housewife, good mother and good wife for my dad. My dad always remind the three of us about our mom's contribution....hehehehehe yang lucu kalo dia suka bilang nyari istri harus kaya mami... i guess why dad loves my mom so much is because she proves what she said. My mom has always been there for my dad....saat dia jatuh susa...saat dia tidak punya apa2 ...and saat dia sakit. Maka itu sangat wajar kalo bokap uda sukses yang pertama dia ingat adalah istri tercinta heheheheh cieee....padahal mahh my mom is always number one in everthing...mau makan dimana? tanya mami...mau jalan-jalan kemana...tanya mami....

I hope that I can learn to become at least a little bit of my mom hehehehehe of course yang bagu2 nya dong...kalo galak nya mahhh...gua ngk mau ikutan :P

4 comments:

Jimmy Lesmana Widjaya said...

Oh..sangat menyentuh..your future husband must be very lucky guy to have a woman like you..

I guess there's always a great woman besides every great man...especially a woman who can take care everything at home.

I really respect every housewives in the world coz their contribution can lead a man become a very successful person.

Good For You.

Ace said...

Idem..

My dad always said that when the time come to leave this world, he would asked God to take him first.
Not my Mom.. He said a family will not survive without a mom figure around. Despite of I love my dad too, I think he is right on his statement.

hikssss.. but I miss both of them..

PrinCess JuJuL said...

Hidup wanita hehehehehehe...tp memang wanita di ciptakan untuk lebih kuat dari pria dalam hal-hal tertentu...Tapi yang penting ber-2 saling menutupi kelemahan masing-masing saja

Jimmy Lesmana Widjaya said...

Setuhuuuu....eh setujuuuu !!!!