The world is full of criticism

Well...including myself...it's sad to know that the older i am, the more judgmental towards status and race.

I just told a friend of mine that to make a relationship works well, it's not about love only, the family has to support you, and one factor that are being considered by the family is ur partner status..which include what does ur parents do for a living...where did u study? abroad? local? how many siblings do u have? what do u do for a living? What are your future plans?

Even if ur partner comes from a rich family, it's not that impt anymore...what we judge is..status..family value..if your parents are divorced...that itself is already a minus point..see that is judgmental...and physical appreance is also impt...fat and slim make a difference...when u are overweight...that is not favorable..esp when you are not married and has not given birth yet..(it's really sad to know that physical judgemental does exist..and it existed in my family too)

And this is all because we lived in a stereotype society...do I even need to mention furthermore if you are different in term of race?? (It's going to be ugly)

I hope that one day if I am a mother myself, I am going to remove all that stereotype thoughts from my children...i know it's not easy and if Alvin is reading this..he will give me that impossible cheeky look..coz i judged too..so are my parents, family and friends..we all judge and pple judged us back...