Monday, April 13

Man's Sucess


Akhir2 ini gua tidur nya sangat pules....kepala kena bantal langsung ZZzzzzz... :)

Kemarin nonton New Town di Pacific Place. The movie is funny and meaningful to me. Intinya, orang mau sukses gimana pun, kalo tidak ada rasa kasih sayang, tidak ada keluarga or support from ur love ones, sama aja 0 = means nothing.

I remember when I was young because of education, my parents have to send me away to Singapore to study. At first it was really difficult for my parents coz we only get to meet once in 6 months. That time as my dad was focusing most of his time in his career, my mom decided to stay back in Indonesia to help him. Tp lama2 baru sadar kalo hubungan antara anak dan orang tua jadi berubah....pernah sekali pas liburan paling ke indo, me and my brothers berasa aneh pas ketemu ortu..felt like meeting a stranger. Ini buat ortu gua sadar kalo nyari duit yang banyak tidak ada artinya kalo sama anak sendiri ajak tidak bisa dekat. Ended up my parents got to sacrifice their time and energy so much just for the three of us... my mom decided to move to Singapore (I know that time it was not easy for my parents especially when my mom hated so much to have to reside in Singapore and have to be seperated from my dad) and my dad got to commute to singapore every weekend (I remember that he would always come on Friday late night flight and flew back on the earliest flight on Monday and went directly to work). It was not easy for them that time karena si bokap hari biasa harus kerja dari pagi sampe malam dan weekend harus travel to singapore dan walaupun dia capek bgt tapi tetap masi keluarkan waktu dan tenaga ajak kita jalan2...cuman pengen biar anak nya berasa ada keluargaan di hidup nya...And all these experiences make me and my brothers realized how impt family is to us.

My dad always said that whatever he has right now..terutama his sucessness...is all because of my mom's support (awwww so sweet hehehehehe tapi bener lho) and i guess this explain why a man's sucess depends on his woman :)

1 comment:

Jimmy Lesmana Widjaya said...

Bener banget...disetiap kesuksesan seorang lelaki pasti ada wanita luar biasa yang setia mendampinginya dalam keadaan apapun.

Sedih ya kalo enggak ada waktu buat keluarga karena kesibukan pekerjaan..tapi kadang-kadang hal seperti itu tidak bisa dihindari.

Contohnya sepupu gue...sekitar 2 bulanan ini bokapnya harus masuk kerja senin-minggu non stop walaupun hari libur sekalipun enggak boleh libur. Kasian banget ngeliat om gue..uban semua wkwkwk...and yang paling kasian sepupu gue. Dia enggak bisa jalan lagi pas weekend karena bokapnya enggak ada alias kerja.

Akhirnya sepupu gue jadi emosional and benci sama family-nya alias kesepian gitu. Dia masih SMU kelas 1,cewek, anak tunggal pula wkwkwk...

Jadinya sering jalan sama kita..tapi tetep aja dia keliatan kesepian alias rindu ngumpul sama bapaknya.

Ya...mau gimana lagi..masa bokapnya enggak kerja..entar dipecat gawat dech jaman kayak gini.

Ini salah satu contoh keadaan yang memaksa..bukan kehendak kita wkwkwkwk...

Tapi akhirnya kan elo happy ending alias deket satu sama lain walaupun banyak pengorbanan dari dad and mom elo hehehe...

Have a NICE day !